March 9 2020 (Monday)

Pa massaging mom’s feet

Pa: “Look, i am caring for u. All our children are worthless. No one cares for us because we are of no value to them anymore. ”

Mom: “yes,  stay strong brother Yong,  we need each other. “

I have been living in the house for a few months now and sometimes inadvertently i hear mom and dad’s conversation.  They argue a lot but they also have a special love for each other.   Pa is not ready for nursing home because he is still mobile.   He enjoys the freedom of going to all the familiar places he has been going for the past 20 years of living in Sydney.   Pa said people would know he is coming.   They always set aside his newspapers for him to pick up.