As a programmer, my job was to debug programs. When a program fails in the field, pages of code is examined for bug(s).
Mom did not even eat a bite of breakfast served this morning. Toilet did not have dirty diapers either. Mom is fasting. This is not healthy for a 80 year old woman.
Pa had gone out for breakfast that morning, so i bought special gourmet bread for mom. Mom was upset that pa did not get any of the bread. It’s not that i am not giving to pa, pa already ate. Sibs had in the past either gave one and not the other. Mom probably has that in grained in her mind.
So, the bug is found, always give the same food for both mom and dad, even if pa already eaten.